Speak like Hemmingway

Work like Ralph Lauren

Party like Gatsby

It’ s raining MEN…! But how a genuine man is supposed to be in order to  be recognised as Gentleman…? What are the special traits of an Italian Grandee, or a European King, or a French seigneur, or  a contemporary  ruler of a country, or a  super talented male actor like Paul Newman or Mr Gatsby… (!) see Mr Leonardo Di Caprio…

How women think about real men are supposed  to be..? And how genuine men feel like behaving with a woman they really want…?

The main characteristic of a Gentleman is that he knows  how to act in a given way towards all.  And when we say all we mean everyone. “(Women, subordinates, children, weak, waiters). His attitude towards women is something which makes the Gentleman distinct from the crowd. When he goes out with a lady,  she never pays . No way !  If the man has no money, he  pretends headache and  he does not come with her.

• A real gentleman does not proclaims or leaving innuendoes about the relationship he has with ladies. He never refers to erotic achievements , outstanding performance or enforcement toys.

A gentleman does not ask a lady where they should go , he picks her up from her house

to go where he judges best,  and returns her  ALWAYS in her house.

• He never touches a woman other than a simple handshake . Excluding his daughter , his wife and his mistress.

• He never hits a lady except sex , and there he needs the consent of her.

• He never ever flirts any woman , if accompanies another.

• He never rapes someone neither physically nor psychologically.

• He knows how to dress according to the occasion . The sandal , the white sock ( except sporting wrapping ) , the shorts off the beach , should be banned.

• He assumes the responsibilities of the decisions, actions and the arbitrary power.

• A gentleman does not need to insult , provided one ironic phrase put others in place.

• He is not fanatic for anything ( Football, religion , parties) and is not a fanatic because he thinks and knows very well, that everything in life has its weaknesses.

• He never loses his humor.

• Yoann Gourcuff

• He never shows off, ever , nothing but nothing . Not feeling proud of the car which owns the villa , pool , money , or social status.

• He never wears gold jewelry other than specific ones and minimum .

• He does not deal all day long with his body and face . In particular ,he does not consider it would be agreeable to a lady if he speaks constantly  about waxing and the night cream which he uses .

• His speech is a contract.

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• He is never hidden from anyone.

• He is philanthropist without making it known to anyone .

• He never says ” we’ll see .” He always knows what to do and what he wants to do…

• by Georgia Papadon with all my love and experience up to now…